LIKE AND DISLIKE OF MY OTHER HALF

DISLIKE :


1. I hate it when he seems insincere in asking me out to go jalan jalan or for a drink and never bother to wait for me but just go off first,and expects me to follow behind especially when you are in the midst of doing something like washing up, eating , hanging up clothes or something that has to be done for the house just like he wants me to drop everything and follow him out but never think for one moment that i do not like to leave things undone half way. I want to finish the thing i m doing first then go and this happened since long ago when we first started dating time.


2. I hate it when he messes up the kitchen, i appreciate it very much that he makes the effort to cook at times but the way he does his cooking is like purposely over doing it to "perform" and all the food just come flying out and strewn all over the stove and on the floor and all full of mess. Then there are the utensils all used and never washed up and left lying around. Then after eating or drinking also every plate or cup not washed and just left at the sink as though the maid will do the chore but sorry no maid...i la the maid and it is so frustrating here i am trying to get my eldest son to wash up but he is setting the example of exactly how his son is doing all the irritating habits.


3. I hate it when he leaves all his clothes all over the place and wearing one after the other like fashion show pulling all out and finding this not suitable that not suitable and then just stuffing it back and then just wearing half an hour and then wear another one but not taking all these clothes to be washed but expect someone to pick after him.


4. I also hate it when he sees the newspapers and then left it strewn around on the floor of the room.


5. I also hate it when he eats in the room.


6. I also hate it when he shows his disapproval face when a question is posed to him, simple question but he just cannot nicely just answer yes or no or dont know but as though i am wrong in asking!


7. I also hate it when i ask him for direction to a place and he does not want to answer me or just say i dont know the place so cannot guide you but just brushed me aside and dont want to offer any help when you need it the most from him.


8. I hate it the most when he always thinks he is correct and i am always wrong and i always answer back apparently to him when i just give an opinion or say my mind. Is it not everyone's entitlement to an opinion be it good or bad or right or wrong to make a conversation and communication?


Why is it everytime i have to listen and agree and keep quiet when he talks when i dont agree to his opinion? He says he wants me to be independant but when i am independant in making decisions he does not like it and says i make him small and treat him as not in existence and not appreciate him and treat he is not important.


9. I hate it when he uses himself dying going bonkers to threat me when in a serious argument.


10. I hate it when i m disciplining the kids whether right way or wrong way, he disagrees with my method in front of the kids and this makes the kids know that "mummy is always wrong one"





Lord, i just want to put forth all these grouses of mine which has been etched deep down in my being for such a long time since the days i started dating with my husband until now and it has triggered all the deep anger that i have and sometimes really depresses me.....and father god please help me renounce all these and help me release all these so that i can really forgive my husband totally and i can start all over to love him fully and help him to overcome whatever hardship he is currently experiencing and we as husband and wife could go through this journey together in loving kindness to each other and rebuild our family together and unite as one to make a great testimony of your love for us.
I hope with all these that i write down i have forgiven my husband Andrew in all the above areas and may these areas never be a stumbling block again in our relationship, may you Father God Bless our union. I ask and pray all these in Jesus most precious and matchless name, Amen.